So after many, many months in therapy, my therapist says I am the type of person that needs to understand and make sense of things in life. I still have so many questions around Music Man’s sexual activities. Maybe someone reading this can give me insight.
Question 1 – How is it that a guy goes to a topless bar and goes so far as to finger a dancer, then goes home? That makes no sense to me. What happens to your male part? Surely it is rock solid? Do the guys go to the parking lot and wack off or do they hire a stripper for sex? I just don’t understand going to a place like that and walking out with no one finishing the job.
Question 2 – How does a guy go to a strange town and pick up a woman for a one night stand, only to never speak to the woman again? What makes sense to me is that a guy would keep her number handy for an easy meet up next time he is in said city? Why would a cheater not take advantage of an easy hook up?
Question 3 – How does a guy who is married only cheat off and on? Like cheats for a couple of years, then not cheats for a couple of years and so on. That doesn’t make sense to me. If your cheating with hookers and one night stands, how do you suddenly stop for two years, then start for two years and so on?
Question 4 – How does a sex addict not get lured into the ease and convenience of meeting strangers on line for sex? To me, that is like placing a giant cake in front of me and I just look at it, while I am eating the health food around the cake. lol
So yeah, these are the things that leave me confused still.